Free tool

How close are you to burning out?

Eight questions, about ninety seconds. No account, no email, and your answers never leave your browser. We built this because every version we could find online asked for an address before showing a result.

1. In the last two weeks, how often have you felt you had no time for yourself?
2. How often do you lie awake thinking about what still needs doing?
3. How often does someone else in the family take a task off you without being asked?
4. How often have you postponed your own medical appointment in the last six months?
5. How often do you feel you are the only person who knows what is going on?
6. How often have you felt irritable or short with the person you care for?
7. How often do you have a conversation that is not about caregiving?
8. In the last month, how often have you thought you cannot keep this up?
How to read it

A number is a prompt, not a verdict.

This is a reflection tool. It is not a diagnosis, it is not a validated clinical instrument, and it does not replace a conversation with a professional. What it does is give you a language for something you have probably been carrying without naming.

The questions are adapted from the domains that validated instruments such as the Zarit Burden Interview and the Caregiver Strain Index examine: time, sleep, isolation, self-neglect, irritability and the sense of being alone with the knowledge.

The point is not the score. The point is that somebody asked.

If the score worried you

Three things that actually help.

Hand over one recurring task

Not everything. One thing that repeats every week. The relief is disproportionate to the size of the task, because it breaks the sense of being the only one.

Book your own appointment

The postponed check-up is the most reliable early sign in the literature, and the easiest one to fix this week.

Call someone whose job this is

The helplines in our resources directory are free, staffed by people who do this all day, and do not require you to be in crisis.

Questions

The questions people ask before they take it.

Short answers, and the limits of what a self assessment can tell you.

How do I know if I am burned out as a caregiver?

Burnout rarely announces itself. The usual signs are sleep that no longer restores you, irritation that surprises you, dropping your own medical appointments, and a slow retreat from people outside the situation. A structured assessment helps because it asks about all of those at once, instead of the one you happen to be thinking about today.

What is caregiver mental load, and how is it measured?

Mental load is the planning, remembering and anticipating that never appears on a task list. We measure it as one of four domains in the Cognitive Load Index, alongside practical demand, emotional strain and social isolation. This assessment is a short, self reported version of the same structure.

Is this assessment private, and do I have to give an email?

It runs entirely in your browser. Nothing is sent to us, there is no email field, and closing the tab erases it. That is a deliberate design choice, not a limitation we plan to remove.

Can Rezilia predict caregiver burnout before it happens?

Not yet, and we will not claim otherwise. The Cognitive Load Index is in production and measures load continuously. Four week burnout prediction is in clinical validation and is not available to families or organizations today.

What should I do if my score comes back high?

Two things, in this order. Tell one other person in the family a specific thing you need, this week. Then look at the official caregiver agency for your state or department, because most caregivers qualify for respite or support they never claimed. Our resources page lists every one of them.

This measured one moment.
Rezilia watches the trend.

The Cognitive Load Index tracks this continuously, against your own baseline rather than a questionnaire average.

In crisis: call or text 988 in the US, 3114 in France.